“Every seeking is guided beforehand by what is sought” (Martin Heidegger, 1924).
This means that our longings live in a prior relationship with the object of their longings.
This means that we are, in our seeking, guided by the very thing we are seeking. Pretty cool, huh?!
This means that we need to listen closely and lovingly to that itch that is calling to be scratched. When this itch has access to a loving and open body-mind, it will make use of that body-mind to answer it’s own questions.