All of life wants to become what it has been given to be. This is the inexorable movement of life towards ever greater wholeness.
Yes yes, I know… what about entropy? That too is happening. We are all doomed. Everything that we love, at some level, will break, fall apart, rot, and die. At the same time, there is this other thing. It has been called syntropy. In part, this is a force that draws like things to one another. Call it the power of love, life is drawn to life, to ever greater complexity of creative interconnectedness.
Without getting too far afield, it is important to remember this fact. All life moves towards greater wholeness, complexity/richness of self-expression. Your being and mine want to come into the fullness of what it/they can be. We are healing machines built/created to move towards wholeness!!!
This is a fact. Now go and see how you can honor this fact and live into your wholeness.